{"id":10728,"date":"2018-12-06T02:46:30","date_gmt":"2018-12-06T09:46:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/moneyppl.com\/?p=10728"},"modified":"2022-02-15T15:48:52","modified_gmt":"2022-02-15T22:48:52","slug":"50-things-you-must-abandon-to-become-a-high-achiever","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dev.moneyppl.com\/50-things-you-must-abandon-to-become-a-high-achiever\/10728\/","title":{"rendered":"50 Things People Must Abandon To Become High Achievers"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
Not everyone becomes a successful entrepreneur or excels in their field at the highest level, but that is because good things do not come easily. Finding success and becoming a high achiever takes a lot of grit and sacrifice. It may just mean changing aspects of your personality. These are 50 things you need to give up if you want to achieve great things.<\/span><\/p>\n The idea of popularity can be alluring, but in reality, you can’t please everyone. No matter what you say or do, there will always be someone who is unhappy with your decisions. So you might as well save your energy and be yourself. This also applies to making difficult decisions if you are in a leadership position. You might even have to fire someone if you are manager or business owner.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Becoming a successful high achiever means knowing what you are good at, and asking for help in other areas. It also means knowing how to manage your time efficiently so that you can focus on your talents. Just because you <\/span>can<\/span><\/i> do everything by yourself it doesn’t mean you should, if it’s not the best use of your time. <\/span><\/p>\n For example, if it takes you two hours to cook dinner and do the dishes, maybe it’s better to order takeout on a night when you have a big deadline. If you run a business, you should hire someone to help you do the low-level mundane tasks, and focus only on the tasks you <\/span>must<\/span><\/i> do alone. If you can’t afford to pay for the help, try to learn when it’s appropriate to ask a friend or family member to lend a hand when they can.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n If you have a strong gut feeling about something, it’s best to pay attention. Your intuition will help you avoid bad situations, and know when to jump into a great opportunity, even when it doesn’t make the most sense.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n No one is born knowing everything they need to know about what it takes to become successful. It is a matter of learning through trial and error, and that includes going into situations where you secretly have no idea what you’re doing.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n High achievers know that learning shouldn’t stop after you graduate with a degree. Successful people are always in the process of learning new things, even if they are considered to be a ‘master’ of their craft. The world keeps changing, especially with modern technology. If you don’t keep up with learning new things, you are likely to fall behind eventually.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Despite what you see in the movies, inspiration is not a magical lightning bolt that hits you at the perfect moment. Sure, sometimes it happens like that, but the vast majority of successful people go looking for inspiration instead of waiting for it to come to them. This is especially true for anyone working in a creative field. Instead of waiting around, force yourself to work on your goals every day, and the inspiration will come later.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Some people think that you will achieve more if you give yourself a ton of work to do every day. Sometimes, that works, but most of the time, it will only overwhelm you, which is counter-productive. You also run the risk of rushing to get something done, and it’s not your best work. Make sure you give yourself enough time before a deadline to get a project done to the best of your ability.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n No one ever succeeded by staying in their comfort zone. Whether you are trying to start a business or get a promotion in your company, you will have to take a risk at some point if you want to get ahead. Just remember that uncomfortable situations are usually only temporary, and you can get through it.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n A lot of aspiring entrepreneurs get tons of great ideas, but some never actually pick one thing and stick to it. Indecision can totally kill real progress, so it is very important to get your head in the game and stay focused. It’s best to use logic and maybe some “pro” and “con” charts to help make your decisions, but even if it’s a matter of flipping a coin, sometimes, you have to just pick something in order to move forward.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n People have distractions in their lives now more than ever. Between TV, YouTube, Instagram, Facebook, Reddit, and texting your friends, you can easily go down a black hole of distractions that will make hours go by in the blink of an eye. Distractions can also come in the form of friends, co-workers, significant others, and family members. Instead of letting your mind wander, try to put the phone down and focus on your tasks, instead.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Success is never a perfect incline. There are going to be obstacles in the way for everyone, and it can be very difficult. During a particularly difficult time, you might be tempted to give up and settle for the life you have now. Just remember that it’s a marathon, not a race. And as long as you keep trying, you’ll get to the finish line eventually.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n If you are a pessimistic and cynical person, you are going to have a hard time moving up in the world. A “bad attitude” can also mean just generally being mean and rude to other people. No one wants to work with someone like this, whether it’s co-workers or clients who are considering hiring you. Check yourself before you wreck yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Some people make the excuse that they like to be “fashionably late”, but if you show up late to a meeting, your clients and co-workers are going to assume you aren’t taking your job seriously, and many people become personally offended, because it shows that you do not respect the time of the person who is waiting for you. This is only going to hurt your chances of moving up in the world.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n In America, we have this “hustle more” mindset, especially in start-up culture. People are almost proud to say that they are going on 2 hours of sleep and 10 cups of coffee so that they can get a ton of work done. If you are in your 20’s, maybe you can do this for a while, but you will eventually hit a brick wall. Burning out is awful, and it can sometimes take weeks to recover even a fraction of the productivity you once had. So remember not to push yourself too hard.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n In order to avoid burning out, you need to take self-care seriously. This comes in all forms, depending on who you are. Self-care can be going on a walk for some fresh air, taking a bubble bath, or spending your weekend binge-watching a Netflix series. Yes, it it taking time away from your work. But giving your brain the time to relax will actually give you better productivity overall.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n If you are extremely focused on the task at hand, it can consume all of your thoughts…but you just forget to say it out loud. This happens to busy people more often than you think. So just remember to communicate your intentions and expectations to your employees, co-workers, boss, and clients. They will appreciate being in the loop, and it shows that you can work well with others. <\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n The founder of Amazon.com, Jeff Bezos, says that he thinks about the customer first, and then works from there. That philosophy applies to so many more fields than just retail. Whether you are a doctor, stock broker, lawyer, professor, or writer, you need to always be thinking about the patient, client, student, or reader. When you put those people first instead of yourself, it often develops into a successful career. <\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n This almost seems like common sense, but if you want to succeed, you need to kick laziness to the curb. There is no excuse for “I don’t feel like it”, and those words shouldn’t even be in your vocabulary.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n When an issue feels really overwhelming, it’s way too easy to sweep it under the rug for another day. But when we do this, problems tend to get worse. The phrase “more money, more problems” is very real. So, if you want to change your life and have a high-powered position, you need to learn how to face issues head-on with patience and bravery.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Whether we like to admit it or not, drinking and smoking slows our body down. And sometimes, if we overdo it, our bodies hate us the next day, and we have to move through a sluggish haze. If you want to be on the top of your game, it is necessary to stay sober Monday through Friday, at the very least.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Far too many people use the victim mentality as an excuse to not succeed. No matter what hardships you have gone through in your life, and no matter how much your physical disabilities, race, gender, or socio-economic status might hold you back, there is always a way to improve your situation. Privilege is very real, and there are some people who have their lives set up to succeed from the time they are born. Even if it takes you years longer to achieve your dreams, that doesn’t mean it’s impossible for you to get there. Instead of playing the victim, try to empower yourself to become an example of someone who has defied the overwhelming odds of your situation.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n We all know that eating junk food every day, over-eating, and smoking are not good for our bodies, but it can also hurt our productivity, as well. As you are reading this, you are probably thinking about the unhealthy habits you have. No one is perfect, but every improvement you make will help you become healthier and more productive.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Hitting the “snooze” button is tempting, especially if you work from home. But if you wake up early, you will have more hours in the day to get everything done. Remember- everyone has the same 24 hours, but those who choose to spend them wisely are the ones that get ahead.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Sociological and psychological studies have proven that the more time we spend on Facebook and Instagram, the more miserable we feel. Comparison is the thief of joy, and if you spend to much time on it, you will begin to feel like you may never be as successful as someone else. It’s also a huge distraction, too. Try to spend less time on there, and you will most likely feel a lot happier and more productive. <\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Filmmaker Casey Neistat has some of the best advice on this topic: “Excuses are exactly like a–holes. Everyone’s got them, but no one wants to hear about yours.” In his YouTube video titled “NO EXCUSES”, he explains that everyone has obstructions in achieving their goals, and it is necessary to overcome them in order to achieve your dream. Excuses are the reasons for you abandoning your dreams. “Each obstruction that is not overcome becomes an excuse. These excuses often take place of your dreams. Then, all that’s left are you and your excuses.”<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Sometimes, a task can seem so overwhelming, it makes us feel powerless. And if you are going through a difficult time in your life, it is all too easy to get de-railed from the path of following your dream. But if you give in to that emotion, you are likely to fail to achieve your goals. It’s okay to take a break and practice some self-care, and re-approach and problem when you feel better. If this is a constant problem in your life, you may want to seek help, because it is possible that you have depression. <\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n If your office looks like an episode of <\/span>Hoarders<\/span><\/i>, you are likely to not get anything done, no matter how much you insist that you know where all of your stuff is. There should be a place for everything to be tucked away so that you can sit at your desk and focus at the task at hand. <\/span><\/p>\n If you are looking for some inspiration, check out the YouTube video of Casey Neistat’s office tour, or search for your particular field with the key words “office tour”, like “artist office tour” or “musician studio tour.”<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n In the words of Elle Woods from <\/span>Legally Blonde<\/span><\/i>; “Exercise gives you endorphins. Endorphins make you happy. Happy people just don’t shoot their husbands. They just don’t.”<\/span><\/p>\n All jokes aside, getting a good workout into your schedule really can help to boost your mood, and it will help you become more productive, too.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n There is a saying that you need to “dress for success”, and that’s completely true. But there is a fine line between knowing how to present yourself and going overboard. If you care way too much about how you look, this takes time away from your work, and it also leads to spending more money on clothes, cosmetics, etc.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n We are only human, so our bodies need Vitamin D to be happy and healthy. If you aren’t getting enough sunlight, it can lead to you feeling exhausted. Remember to take a walk in nature, go to the beach, or any other excuse to get outside.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n If you are spending all of your hard-earned money on frivolous things instead of saving or re-investing, it is likely that you are not putting your money where it needs to be in order to move up in the world. Are you investing in your dreams, or buying shoes, clothes, and the newest iPhone? <\/span><\/p>\n Amazon.com is famous for being worth billions of dollars, and yet they don’t bring in a profit. This is because Jeff Bezos chose to take his money and re-invest it in the business instead of spending it on himself. Even when he was worth millions, he still drove around in an older car. This is how people often succeed in the long run. If you want to go far, it only makes sense to investing in a degree to further your education, or buy the necessary tools to make your work more efficient.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Moving forward in your career usually comes along with some kind of change, whether it’s moving to a new state, changing your job title, or mixing up your daily routine. If you are very stuck on keeping things the same, it’s not likely you can move up to the next level.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n No matter how much caffeine we consume in a single day, our bodies truly do need sleep in order to have a healthy immune system and a clear mind. If you need to pull the occasional all-nighter, so be it, but don’t make it a habit. On average, out bodies need between 6 and 8 hours of sleep per night. If you are getting less than that, you may not be able to think clearly and work to your fullest potential.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n50. Needing to Be Well-Liked<\/span><\/h2>\n
49. Trying To Do Everything Alone<\/span><\/h2>\n
48. Ignoring Your Intuition<\/span><\/h2>\n
47. The Fear of the Unknown<\/span><\/h2>\n
46. Thinking You Know it All<\/span><\/h2>\n
45. Waiting for Inspiration to Strike<\/span><\/h2>\n
44. Giving Yourself Unrealistic Deadlines<\/span><\/h2>\n
43. Avoiding Discomfort<\/span><\/h2>\n
42. Indecision <\/span><\/h2>\n
41. Allowing Distractions To Get In Your Way<\/span><\/h2>\n
40. Forgetting the Big Picture<\/span><\/h2>\n
39. Having a Bad Attitude <\/span><\/h2>\n
38. Lateness<\/span><\/h2>\n
37. Burning Out<\/span><\/h2>\n
36. Avoiding Self-Care<\/span><\/h2>\n
35. Forgetting to Communicate<\/span><\/h2>\n
34. Forgetting About the Customer or Client<\/span><\/h2>\n
33. Laziness<\/span><\/h2>\n
32. Pretending A Problem Doesn’t Exist<\/span><\/h2>\n
31. Drinking and Smoking<\/span><\/h2>\n
30. The Victim Mentality<\/span><\/h2>\n
29. Unhealthy Habits<\/span><\/h2>\n
28. Sleeping In<\/span><\/h2>\n
27. Obsessing Over Social Media<\/span><\/h2>\n
26. Lame Excuses<\/span><\/h2>\n
25. Powerlessness and Helplessness<\/span><\/h2>\n
24. Clutter<\/span><\/h2>\n
23. Skipping The Gym<\/span><\/h2>\n
22. Caring Too Much About Your Appearance<\/span><\/h2>\n
21. Avoiding the Outdoors<\/span><\/h2>\n
20. A Shopping Addiction<\/span><\/h2>\n
19. Resistance to Change<\/span><\/h2>\n
18. Skipping Sleep<\/span><\/h2>\n